“Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man”

By Accra Maweya                   ntlhari.accra@Gmail.com

Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man is a book which was written by well-known Comedian, radio host, television host, producer, radio personality, actor and author. The book’s first edition was published in 2009 by HaperLuxe at the Unites States of America.

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The book describes for women Harvey's concept of what men really think about love, relationships,intimacy, and commitment. 

He quotes “Men can cheat because there are so many women willing to give themselves to a man who doesn’t belong to them.”

In his book he mentions that he realized the need for a book which is aimed directly for us woman who truly wants a solid relationship but just can’t figure out how to get one and for those who are already in a relationship but are trying to figure out how to make it better.

 For a woman who is trying to forget everything she’s ever been taught about men and the myths, the heresy, everything her mother told her, everything her girlfriends told her, all the advice she read in magazines and seen on television.In the book he advises woman to stop heaping their own definition of love on men and recognize that men love differently.”  

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 He writes:

"If you’re dating and you want to find out how to take it to another level, this book is for you. If you’re in a committed relationship, and you want to get the ring, this book is for you. If you ‘remarried and you want to regain control and strengthen your bond, or if you’re tired of being played with, then I want you to use this book as a tool to take each of the principles, rules, and tips in this no-nonsense guide and use them to anticipate a man’s game plan, and to counter with an offense and defenses."

He has gone as far as even making a feature film based on the book titled “Think Like a Man”. It was released by Sony Pictures' Screen Gems subsidiary on 20 April 2012. He was an executive producer on the film and made a cameo appearance as himself.